Okay, so there’s this guy. It’s a long story but we’ve been chatting online for a while, turns out we have common background (went to the same school way back when) and friends in common. He’s going to be in my town next week and needs a place to stay. Dilemma – would you offer your couch or make him stay in a hotel? Normally, I’d trust my instincts but my instincts seem to be on strike. I’m torn – be spontaneous or cautious?